2016 Personal Planning Worksession

For years I was constantly asking myself and my close friends: “What am I going to do with my life?” Every few months I would have this very clear feeling that I was missing something important. I remember sitting around wondering what I was supposed to be doing and I hated the feeling. It’s always left…

The Imagine Impact Project!

Life is so short. I spent the better part of yesterday “remembering how to live”! I have been incredibly busy and I looked up to realize that I had been helping everyone else and had allowed me and my life to slip some. It didn’t slip much but it was enough to make me notice….

An Affirmation for Recovering People Pleasers.

People pleasers don’t know how to set healthy boundaries. People who don’t know how to set healthy boundaries are also people who don’t make decisions. They can never decide because, what I like to call O.P.O (other peoples opinions) are louder than their own. If you want to stop people pleasing there’s one thing to…

Nasty Danita vs Nice Danita

“My life’s message is written on the lives of others.” In my ways: actions and treatment of myself and others. In my choices: appearance, conversation, entertainment, friends. In my thoughts: about myself, about others, about this world, about God. I don’t impress this message on anyone more than on my own family . It easiest…

Happy Wednesday!! Here are some funnies!

I love to laugh and thankfully I am easily amused. :). I’m sharing some funnies with you! Thanks for sharing some chuckles with me. May you never, ever, stop finding the hilarity in your daily life. 🙂 Blessings, Danita

8 Thoughts That Amazing People Think.

We’ve been told that our success or “goodness” is represented by the condition of our lives. “Successful” people are financially stable, fit, have an organized home, well behaved and intelligent children, vacation at least once a year, are well read and have taken the time to update their iOS to version 7.1.1/2! We measure ourselves…

Happy Thursday! Here are some funnies.

I’ve promised myself that I will laugh every day so here are some funnies that gave me a chuckle: I hope you had some fun chuckles!!! See ya tomorrow.

My lil’ Vaca

Hi Darlings! It’s been a phenomenal week and I am going to tell you why! I had a lil’, tiny, mini, much needed, unexpected(!!!!) vacation. It was lovely. I went to South Carolina. It was refreshing and refueling. I was invited to attend an #IAmWoman conference and it was great. I heard so many wonderful…

A list for recovering people pleasers.

Hi guys! This is the second part of our chat on People Pleasing. This post contains a list of statements, affirmations and people pleasing indicators that I think are super helpful for recovering people pleasers. I think this list is phenomenal and I really want to jump right in but I recognize, as a recovering…

What us people pleasers need in this life!

Hello Urban Mamma! Happy new year!!!!! Today is Rosh Hashanah- Jewish New Year. Apples and honey for everyone!! 🙂 The kids are out of school and we have a lot planned but before all that gets going I wanted to share my New Year’s resolution: I resolve to stop people pleasing! Oh Honey (and apples),…

When your help is required in the form of respect.

So, I was reading about this lovely lady named Abigail. She was married to a rock head man who placed her, her entire family, business and staff in deaths path. I like her A LOT. Whew!!! I cannot tell you how much I respect this chick. Her husband pisses off David, who at the time,…

Dear God, I believe but can we talk about it first?

Mary, Jesus’ mother was the original urban mom, wasn’t she! Minding her business doing her thing and suddenly everything changed! She was painting her nails or deep conditioning her hair and in walked Gabriel and in a matter of moments she was a single mother in Nazareth with no baby daddy! LOL. Bonkers. I read…